I allow myself to cry and release as much as possible of those feelings until I get to a point that I can’t do it anymore. Honestly, I believed him and what he was capable of.

If you want to find better, even if it is with that person in the future, you need to This is the time to do all those things that you wanted to do and haven’t done in a while. Once upon a time, my entire life fell to pieces, but I refused to give up as the circumstances crumbled around me. You know that despite the pain you’re feeling in this moment, you would do it all again because of all the good that existed between you.When he tells you he doesn’t know what he wants, do not ask him why. I went through the same thing with my boyfriend. I wish you to have the mental clarity to understand that the limitations of others do not necessarily affect you if you don’t want to and that you do not have to accept any nonsense or blame that is not yours to have.

This is an excuse to break up. I remember when I broke up with my ex, I end up telling her that she deserves better, you know why? When he is already aware of what you want, need, or deserve in the relationship and he doesn’t feel he can give it to you, do not hope that he decides to step up and do those things for you. Usually when a person says you deserve better and breaks up with you it means that they don't want to hurt you but they don't want to be with you either. Do not look at the words, look at the actions. What he was really saying when he said “you deserve better was:As hard as this might be to hear it when you really love someone,Refusing to accept that you deserve better doesn’t play to your benefit.

You liked it so much that you played on repeat over and over, until one day you suddenly became tired of it and didn’t listen to it again. Emotions will come up again later on in waves, at least they do for me, but you would have most of the grieving process already done. Everything you need to know to find them, so you can change them.

You are the one I love and I want you”, but upon further reflection, my mind tends to work really fast on stressful situations, I realize that it wasn’t about me. Then I set a deadline of a week to start the next step, but if I am honest I’ve never been able to cry and wallow for that long. If he hasn't said "you deserve someone better, I think we should part ways" or any other such break up thinks it is probably just a compliment. If you unite that idea with the deep feeling of abandonment that follows a conversation like that, you will find yourself in a space of mind that leads you to believe that: This feeling is the birthing place from where you might decide to fight even harder for that relationship. When I am sad and heartbroken, I saturate the feeling.

Do not tell him about the world you created around the idea of you two. The combination of blame and lack can be very dangerous for your self-esteem. At this point, I would recommend that you stop and acknowledge the truth.

Do things that make you happy, that add value to you instead of subtracting from you.

I am going to share it with you, but please feel free to do what works best for you.You might remember that song that you loved a while back. what he's really saying is he wants out of the relationship but he don't want to hurt you, he's trying to break it to you gently, "I could be wrong but whenever a guy says things like that it usually means he wants out. Copyright 2020 - Judie in the clouds -Mindset, manifestation and more“You deserve better” is one of the most difficult sentences to hear when it comes from the person you love. If he thought he deserved better, he wouldn't be with you. Unless he gets mental help (not from you), things will probably not change. If it was your desire to get married someday or your over emotional capacity.When he tells you that he is a jerk, or a douchebag, or emotionally unavailable, do not think it is your place to fix him- or whatever flaws he is certain he cannot fix on his own- to make the relationship better.