Maybe I'm not chic or rich enough for her new friends. Now, she doesn’t like hugs, doesn’t want her space invaded, and I just don’t know her anymore. I barely made tuition for the twelve years but I made sure every dime I got went to her for her. That support can come from a partner, trusted friends, an in-person or online community of parents raising teens, or a therapist of your own.

I cry at night. I am sad daily. Previous topic - Next topic. Does she regularly speak with her father, your ex?? I really have no idea what I could have done to make her hate me so. I’ve tried to include her in things, ask her opinion, talk to her while driving, and continually tell her and show her how much we love her. Now she has moved back to Los Angeles and she traveling in a pretty high profile crowd. She only comes out of her room to eat and shower.My daughter was always so clingy with me, enjoyed doing things together, and was very affectionate.

sad This is going to be long and rambling and I'm sure it sounds like just typical preteen stuff, but trust me, it goes well beyond that but it would take pages and pages to explain. I have one daughter and i just don't know what else to do. You are not alone in the pain of missing your previously warm connection with your daughter, but it can feel isolating to see other close parent-teenager relationships.Your daughter may still warm toward you as she enters older adolescence. Now, she doesn’t like hugs, doesn’t want her space invaded, and I just don’t know her anymore. I hope it gets better.Yes she sees her dad on a more regular basis. I have asked and I have tried...I'm done!I'm sorry you feel so sad and understand this must be so hard. As of recent, and when she was 17, she slowly came back into our lives. I just don’t understand how your child can treat the person who took such good care of them suddenly don’t want to be near me.

Why does my 26 year old daughter hate me so much.

While I dated throughout her teen years i never had a man live with us and I was very selective about who she got to meet. I don't know why my adult daughter hates me! Psych Central does not provide medical or psychological

My daughter Parenting an adolescent, while exhilarating and rewarding, can also feel lonely and disheartening. She will be 11 in a couple weeks and I feel like our relationship is unsalvageable. You owe it to yourself (and your daughter) to find that kind of support during this time.Dr.

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I am miserable. September 03, 2017, 04:57:02 pm . Her friends are the new Hollywood young guns. advice, diagnosis or treatment. I always managed to live where she had her own room and she went to catholic school till 9th then to an all girls Catholic school then to a catholic college in the Bay area. Print.

She graduated in 2007. When she went to college I became the horrible, controlling, manipulating person she thinks I am. My daughter was always so clingy with me, enjoyed doing things together, and was very affectionate. We raised her together. Her father lives in LA and I'm afraid the parent with the money gets the attention.

My daughter seemed to change overnight when she turned 13.

But...I can't get into the thing of "WHAT'S YOUR FATHER TELLING YOU". We raised her together. Let her know you just want some basic contact and respect after all you've done over the years.

Validate your daughter's emotions to show her that you're willing to talk to her about the things that cause her to hate you.

I don’t know why they hate me so. You’ll want to find a therapist who specializes in teenagers and their development in order for therapy to feel most helpful for your family.Lastly, it is important for parents to feel supported in the formidable task of raising adolescents. In addition, she may benefit from seeing positive relationships between her friends and their parents.Teenagers can feel resentful if they believe they’re being forced into therapy, as if they are expected to “fix” the problem.

I have tried and tried to have the relationship … As teenagers become more confident in themselves and their place in the world, many come to appreciate the support of their parents.You may consider creating some non-negotiable family time during the week, in the form of low-stress, “easy” activities. There are good books on mother /daughter conflicts but don't have a specific recommendation. cazakstan Thu 08-Aug-13 20:58:14. Your daughter may be more open to the idea if she is able to bring a friend along. Tori Cordiano is a clinical psychologist in Shaker Heights, Ohio, and Research Director of Laurel School’s Center for Research on Girls.Read exclusive content when you get YTM delivered to your door.Receive our weekly newsletter with the latest articles, media, and resources. User actions. Of course I went too and sat in the back watching..but I wanted to teach her how to be out in public.

I'm at a loss. I have never had a boy or drug problem with her. on December, 30 2017 12:19 PM (Question) I am 59 years old. (336 Posts) MNHQ have commented on this thread. Oh and her Dad is the one with the money now. I was the mother who was always there for my children. My daughter is now 30 years old and completely shuts me out of her life unless she wants something from me. Anyway I'm done. Started by suzhappy, September 03, 2017, 04:57:02 pm. It was in the beginning of 2009 and she Did get fired. I have been in such agony for three years now. her farther and I separated when she was 2 but we didn't actually file for divorce until she was 16. She's just finishing a masters degree and has nowhere else to live and so has been …

her farther and I separated when she was 2 but we didn't actually file for divorce until she was 16. I never touched her, gave her all the things she needed and some of the things she wanted.